Questions for couples: 30 yes/no/maybe questions
Here are 30 yes/no/maybe questions that work great for couples (and friends too). In Synkly you answer separately and see your match per question.
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30 examples (Yes / No / Maybe)
Pick 10 for a quick round — or choose 3–5 and go deeper.
Do you feel we have a good balance between closeness and alone time?
Would you like us to plan more dates/evenings ahead of time?
Would you like us to travel more together over the next year?
Do you feel appreciated by me in everyday life?
Would you like us to talk more about the future (goals, dreams, plans)?
Are you happy with how we handle conflicts today?
Would you like us to get better at asking each other for help?
Do you feel you can be completely yourself with me?
Would you like us to try a new routine that makes everyday life more fun?
Would you like more spontaneous things together (without planning)?
Do you think we’re good at letting each other finish before responding?
Would you like clearer “us-time” without phones/screens?
Would you like us to be more social together (meet people, do things)?
Would you like us to divide responsibilities at home more clearly?
Do you feel supported by me when you’re stressed?
Would you like a weekly check-in (10 minutes) about how we’re doing?
Do you think we celebrate small wins enough?
Would you like us to talk more about money and priorities?
Would you like us to work out or move more together?
Do you feel we’re moving at the same pace in life right now?
Do you think we’re good at apologizing when needed?
Would you like us to get better at giving compliments?
Would you like to try a new way to resolve arguments (e.g., pause + calm talk)?
Do you feel you know what makes me feel loved?
Would you like us to get better at talking about boundaries and needs?
Would you like more ‘date night at home’ (games, food, themes)?
Is our communication clear even when we’re tired?
Would you like us to talk more about what makes us happy in the relationship?
Would you like to try a new shared project (hobby, renovation, trip)?
Do you feel we’re growing together as a couple?
Want to compare answers instantly?
In Synkly you answer separately and see your match per question — which makes it easier to talk about both similarities and differences. Try the relationship test, how synced are you, or the yes / no / maybe list.