Long Distance Relationship Game

40 yes/no/maybe questions designed for long-distance couples — each person answers privately on their own phone, from anywhere in the world.

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What closeness means to you

Do you like spontaneous 'I'm thinking of you' messages?
Do you like sending spontaneous 'I'm thinking of you' messages?
Do you want someone to say 'I miss you' when they truly feel it?
Do you enjoy getting clear reassurance from time to time?
Do you feel appreciated when someone remembers small details about you?
Do you like getting a note or message with something kind written?
Do you like writing a note or message with something kind?
Do you want love to show up in everyday life, not only on 'special days'?
Do you like hearing 'I'm proud of you' sometimes?
Do you enjoy giving and receiving compliments?

Trust & communication

Is trust more important to you than 'excitement' in a relationship?
Do you think you should be able to trust each other's words without proof?
Do you prefer talking things through right away when something feels off?
Are you good at saying what you need instead of hoping someone will guess?
Are you comfortable talking about feelings without things becoming dramatic?
Do you think it's important to fully listen before responding?
Are you okay saying 'I need a little extra reassurance today'?
Are you okay giving extra reassurance when your partner asks for it?
Do you want to be told if someone is running late, even by 10 minutes?
Would you rather have the truth kindly than a lie 'to spare you'?

What you need to feel close

Does physical closeness calm you when you're stressed?
Do you enjoy cuddling close while watching a movie or series?
Do you like it when your partner wants to cuddle close while watching a movie or series?
Do you enjoy falling asleep close to each other when it feels good?
Do you like feeling desired through words?
Do you like expressing desire with words (in a soft way)?
Do you enjoy morning closeness (hug or kiss) as a start to the day?
Do you like giving morning closeness (hug or kiss) as a start to the day?
Do you like showing love by listening and being present?
Does it feel important that you understand each other's ways of showing love?

Building toward together

Do you want to build something together (home, project, lifestyle)?
Do you want a relationship that supports your goals (and vice versa)?
Do you like having something you are both looking forward to?
Do you like planning small steps toward big goals?
Do you think it is important for couples to have shared goals?
Are you okay with a relationship taking time to build safely?
Do you enjoy talking about 'how we work' sometimes, not just daily life?
Do you like talking about future plans together?
Does it feel important that your future visions can fit together?
Do you want closeness to always be consensual and easy to say no to?
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Frequently asked questions

How does the long distance game work?

Each person opens Synkly on their own phone — anywhere in the world. You answer every question privately with yes, no, or maybe. When you're both done, Synkly shows you the questions where you answered the same way. No shared screen required.

How does the yes/no/maybe format work?

Both of you answer every question privately on your own phones — yes, no, or maybe. You only see matches, not your partner's individual answers, so there's no awkwardness.

Can we try without an account?

Yes! You can try Synkly directly without an account or email via guest mode. Create an account if you want to save your answers and see matches over time.

What topics does it cover?

The long distance game covers four key themes: what closeness means to each of you, trust and communication, what you need to feel connected when apart, and how you're building toward a shared future. 40 questions total.

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