Why you answer separately
In most conversations about closeness, needs and wishes, you adjust to how the other person reacts. You tone it down, wait, hold back. When you answer separately that disappears. Nobody sees your face while you answer, so the answers are more honest.
Then Synkly compares the answers for you. What you both said yes or maybe to is an easy way in: "We were both curious about this — how would we do it?" What you don't match on stays private.
What the questions are about
Over 6,000 questions in 39 categories. The first ones are fairly gentle: personality, communication, everyday life, flirting, money, the future and trust. After those come adult categories for when you want to go further. Every question is answered yes, no or maybe.
When Synkly fits
- A quiet night in when you want to talk about something other than your day
- When something is hard to bring up and you need a gentle start
- Early in a relationship, to get to know each other faster
- With friends or at a pre-party, using the gentler categories
Popular question types
Yes / No / Maybe – relationships
50 relationship questions. Answer privately, see where you match. Free, no download.
Explore →Yes / No / Maybe – intimate
Explore closeness, desire and boundaries together — at your own pace.
Explore →Yes / No / Maybe – sex
Private answers, shared matches. The safest way to explore new territory.
Explore →Common questions
What is Synkly?
Synkly is a game for two. You both answer yes, no or maybe to the same questions on your own phones, then see the questions you are both open to. It makes it easier to talk about things that are hard to bring up.
Does my partner see my answers?
No. You only see the questions where you both answered yes or maybe. A no is never shown to the other person.
Do we need to download an app?
No. Synkly runs in your browser. If you want, you can add it to your home screen and it works like an app.
Is Synkly free?
You can start free with plenty of categories. Some categories are locked, but you get three free questions in each to try, and can unlock them with a one-time purchase.